• Hemingways_Shotgun@lemmy.ca
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    15 days ago

    It’s not “gone”, but the notion of it being “acceptable” is gone:

    Using ‘retard’ as a slur, not only for people with intellectual disabilities but also just for people or things you think were stupid.

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      15 days ago

      As long as the law is properly enforced. It’s worse to have smokers just all over the place

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      15 days ago

      I don’t care much about the supposed fidelity, but having a group of mates around each pick an album from my stack is a lot of fun.

      It stops people from focusing too hard on the music and going “oh wait lemme queue up this track” etc.

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    15 days ago

    George W. Bush’s presidency. I don’t know what the kids are smoking when they say current republicans make him look “classy” or that Trump’s first term was worse than his. He bred a constant state of paranoia and xenophobia and used it to justify killing countless people in the middle east. The damage done to that part of the world is staggering and everyone just treats it like background noise.

    Also that decade post-SpongeBob where every kid’s cartoon was about a loud, annoying, dumb guy.

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      15 days ago

      GWB definitely had a scarier presidency than Trumps first term for sure. but this second term is unlike anything I’ve ever seen

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        14 days ago

        Absolutely, that’s why I specified the first term! Even during Biden I kept seeing people say GWB was better than Trump, when they didn’t have this current nightmare fresh affecting their judgment. The kids just really want to redeem Bush for some reason.

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      14 days ago

      Imagine being 6 years old and your mother hugging you while crying. You have no electricity. It’s night time. Artillery shell explosions followed by the crumbling buildings and injured crying in pain are the only break you get from your mother’s sounds of sobbing. They’re destroying your entire block, but what you feel is terror. You can look out a window and see flashes. You don’t even know what politics or weapons of mass destruction. You’re just there scared until you die. You wonder what you did for this to happen. Now imagine hundreds of that same experience per night.

      That never makes it into the news. I would love to see people’s responses. Show the child and mother live. Then, people are randomly asked, “Push button to kill this person immediately or you will be put in jail and shamed for life.” Let’s see how they react to that guilt for eternity.

      There’s a quote from Game of Thrones that I think of often. The setting is that 3 brutal high-class leaders have to decide which one of them will die as punishment. They start getting nervous, so Tyrion says:

      It always seems a bit abstract, doesn’t it, other people dying?

      I find it validating.

  • BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world
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    14 days ago

    Smoking everywhere and anywhere. Younger folks have no idea how ubiquitous it was, not to sound boomerish, but everything smelled so bad, and people would smoke in places that would shock you now, like in hospitals they would smoke in the nurses station, if you walked into a clothing store at the mall they’d be smoking at the counter, etc. Even when they did things like making that glass room for smokers at Tim Hortons, I once saw a woman sitting in there with her toddler in a stroller puffing away. It was actually amazing that anyone put a stop to public smoking because so many people did it.

  • Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    16 days ago

    At the risk of becoming too anti-casual, anti-gay slurs were so common in the US up until the mid/late 90s, if you weren’t there for it you just have no idea. One of the Bill and Ted movies (I think the first one?) just randomly dropping it in there as a joke, where the slur is the joke, is a good example of just how it was then. There’s still bigotry but it’s not as casual and pervasive.

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    16 days ago

    CDs and DVDs and (video)casettes. Took up so much room, annoying to use while travelling.

          • LucasWaffyWaf@lemmy.world
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            Cassettes can sound great if ya got Type III metal tapes. Lots of cheap tapes were Type I, which don’t sound nearly as good.

            VHS tho nah, as nostalgic as I am for it, it’s just a bad option today lol

    • Go-On-A-Steam-Train@lemmy.ml
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      16 days ago

      CDs are great though :( I love that I can rip them and back them up, play them wherever I go, no licences or streaming. :)

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        So you don’t actually love CDs but the fact you can not use them after buying them. You can still buy non DRM music you don’t have to subscribe and you could rip or copy streamed music if it wasn’t easier to pirate it.

        CDs by the way also are subject to licenses and DRM has started to appear on them. The reason they did not try as hard as with DVDs and Blurays is that Music is trivial to copy, people have been ok with taping from the radio after all. If video on physical media was still a thing you would have plenty of DRM, they’d probably make you buy a newer player after 5 years or so.

        • Go-On-A-Steam-Train@lemmy.ml
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          I love CDs.

          I love that they play in my car, don’t take up a tonne of space, have liner notes, and occupy physical space. I stick them on in the house as much as my LPs, and like picking out what to play.

          I’m okay with being in the minority, but the sentimental value of where I was when I picked an album, where I’ve listened to it, and who I was with means a great deal to me. :) I download too, but usually things just sit on my drive and don’t get listened to.

          You present a good point about licences, but I’ve not ever experienced this, and my main concern with licencing is things vanishing from my library - it bothers me when an album vanishes from spotify, and that never happens with physical media (same is true of downloaded music to be fair). It’s not that I’m blindly loyal to Phillips or whatever, just that I like this format for my specific use case.

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            Can’t argue with non licensing/copying/backup reasons for preferring CDs or other physical media.

            But a lot of people are under the misconceptions that things like licensing came to existence after the switch away from physical media or that there were not DRM in physical media, therefore switching back to a physical media would solve the current problems with lack of control over our media. It will not.

            What we need is DRM-free digital media, which we can use wherever and however we want. Just like a lot of us did with MP3s and CDs.

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              I’m with you 100% :) I have a record collection too, but heck if I’d want only records! There’s a use case for each, even if mine’s oddly specific.

              I feel Steve Albini’s take on CDs hit it correctly, it was basically to the effect of “welcome to the rich man’s eight track tape, the music industry’s newest way to make you re-buy your music and spend more money”.

              I will say he couldn’t have forseen CDs lasting like they have and being the last big physical format, but I think it’s very true. You’re right that physical formats don’t negate the greed/capitalism, and there’s a compulsive desire from companies to control how you enjoy the media you paid for and “own”.

              In short, I completely agree with you and the media industries are really restrictive/anti-art, but love CDs as a format. :)

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        15 days ago

        A couple years ago it was an issue in Christian religious organizations bad enough that there’s plenty of memes about it. How much this is still the case, I do not know

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          It was an enormous issue under Pope Benedict, yes, and then I think Pope Francis took things in the complete opposite direction and cracked down on the issue. But alas, it’s still a problem. And not really just in churches but anywhere where an in-loco-parentis system is involved, which includes things like regular school teachers and daycare providers as well, which is one contributing factor against the idea of children in regular occupations. As an asexual, a part of me wonders if simply screening people would solve the issue.

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    16 days ago

    Smoking everywhere. For anyone who wasn’t around for the 70s/80s/90s, everything was tinged yellow and smelled of smoke. Car/plane/train seats had built-in ashtrays. Restaurants had smoking sections separated from the non-smoking sections by waist-high walls.

    I have asthma and it sucked. Not sure if I grew out of it as I got older or if there’s just not a miasma of smoke around everywhere, but it rarely bothers me anymore.

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    16 days ago

    Women having to get husband’s permission to open a bank account (speaking of the US).