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    Complete the damn degree and then do what you want. At least your have a document to help you if the shit hits the fan.

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    TBH, I don’t blame her in the least. It’s hard enough for men. I can’t imagine what it must be like for women to endure misogyny on top of what men go through in STEM.

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    This is… so inefficient.

    She could have become an engineer (or whatever she wants), made videos about it, and made a big difference in many people’s lives, and had whatever personal life she wanted. Instead, she’s producing ‘entertainment’ that’s been replicated a bajillion times.

    I an happy for her personally, but this is such a loss to society and a huge ding against the education/work pipeline. I assume she would’ve rather gone into her chosen field if it wasn’t such a miserable grind. If it isn’t ‘worth the hardship’ for someone so brilliant, hardworking, charismatic, and everything to go into STEM, then the system she’s in is completely busted.

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      If it’s such a loss to society, perhaps something should be done about society’s economic structure and how it partitions rewards. Rather than throwing shade on someone for making an economically advantageous decision.

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    I’ve done cursory research on this person, and my understanding is that she claims she will still be teaching science but only wearing sexy tops on. I don’t know how truthful that is but even some Olympic athletes said they are in Only fans but “only being sexy without showing”, in order to supplement their income. I don’t really fault people for this considering the worsening cost of living crisis.

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      Plenty of Chinese, black, south american weiners.

      There is no need to bring in race and divide us. We’re all getting fucked by the 1% regardless of skin color.

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    If you’ve got it, flaunt it.

    I hope she manages to set up an irrevocable trust that guarantees steady income for the rest of her life so someday she can quit sex work and just pursue art or something if she wants

    Hell, maybe it’ll turn out that sex work is her art and that is ok too

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      Good for her but I can’t help but feel envious that paths and choices like this are basically exclusively only available to the opposite sex

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        it isn’t. there’s a lot of male OF models too, although their fans are probably mostly gay men. good news is, unlike performers from before online videos took off, you don’t really have to be “gay for pay”. OF models can get away with doing solo work as well.

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        Blame that on men being the only people willing to pay for it.

        That said there’s plenty of gay men out there willing to buy pictures of your ding dong if it’s photogenic enough.

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        you could argue that men have similar exclusive, lucrative paths that use their strength/athleticism and are also probably statistically similar rates of exclusivity within their sex. Like, not everyone will be a professional footballer just like not every onlyfans model makes livable income.

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          The mean earnings for OF is $150/month. Meaning it’s likely there’s a vast majority of people earning $50-100/month, and a vast minority earning $100k/month.

          With props, camera, lighting, editing “costuming” etc, you probably lose money doing it.

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          Not to mention, it’s definitely possible for men to have successful careers in sex work. I expect there are far fewer successful men in sex work, and they probably need to be ok with having a mostly male clientele. But it’s still possible.

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    I watched the video and it is very convincing and honestly true on many levels. If you can earn much better money from being your own boss then why would you want to spend time with those assholes at work for less?

    I am doing it myself just not as successful and not porn because I like privacy.

    There is something strange about her and this whole thing though. I can’t help to think it’s all some kind of stunt or AI person idk. Something is uncanny. Maybe it is just the autism that radiates from her

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      If I had to guess, I’d say her OF gig is far from a full time job. So she still has time to spare to work on what she enjoys, and the capital to start an actual business down the road.

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      I suspect it’s AI generated too. Look at her right shoulder after around the 30 second mark: https://youtube.com/shorts/Cks_9h9Nx_Q, it’s all jittery. Quite a cunning plan if that is the case though; carefully crafting a PhD persona and doing instructional videos for a year so men slowly fall in love, and then go full-bore on explicit content.

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        I think it may be the case of AI augmentation techniques. I do not think the whole person is artificial outright. The older the video the more clear it should be.

        What can we tell is 100% real is onlyfans money and someone actually being in front of the camera.

        Kinda makes you want to try to pull off something like this doesn’t it? Whether it is the case or not it really looks like an exciting way to make some money on the side.

        At least before such things become super common

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          Augmentation does make more sense indeed.

          Kinda makes you want to try to pull off something like this doesn’t it?

          With OnlyFans I don’t think I’ve a problem, yet. But lying about one’s identity they’re selling I do consider as immoral, so no.

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            I do not have such problems 😂 but I appreciate generally that there are way more people who are concerned with such things. Makes society possible probably. Let’s hope it never changes.

            However any perceived issues with lying about identity cannot be raised in the context of online porn. The lie is the key to the entertainment. End result is what matters with onlyfans. There is no deception where there wasn’t any truth from the beginning. Porn is deception. When someone treats it as real they become disordered and not aligned to the real world.

            Not to mention the family friendly YouTubers being very distant from the definition of “real”. You didn’t think they all present their real selves in front of the camera? Showbiz is all smoke and mirrors. There was never any real identity there.

            However yes this is probably the most wrong account you would want to have parasocial relationship with. Not that there are any right.

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    I googled this story to, uh, fact check it, and found this article saying that her move to OF is fake news. Except, upon closer examination, it seems the article is AI slop and completely made up. How ironic.

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      So I’m reading this debunking, and

      Zara smartly leveraged the viral moment to confront the misinformation head-on and promote her YouTube channel, where her actual content lies.

      So I go to her YouTube channel https://youtube.com/@zara-dar and,

      Description
      STEM Gal and Model Austin, Texas.

      Message me:
      https://zaradarz.com/

      Most recent video is https://youtu.be/_uEG0H4RXcA where she says she is making an OnlyFans (I’m not going to watch the full 10 minutes so unless this is an elaborate prank that’s revealed in the end…)

      Go to https://zaradarz.com/ which is listed as her website on her YouTube channel

      STEM Gal | PhD Dropout | OnlyFans model

      Message Me 🌶️

      Go to the OnlyFans link https://onlyfans.com/zaradar/c3

      If you are a sapiosexual, this page is for you 😉 (Please click “more info” below 🥹)

      Texas-born and bred, engineer, Ph.D. dropout, and YouTuber. I’m a nerd with a passion for art, fitness, and reading.

      On this page, I share with you my artistically and beautifully curated exclusive content which includes a level of nudity and my love for erotica 📸. I love pushing my boundaries with you 😉.

      Also this Instagram page links to her website (the one mentioned on her YouTube) and is from at least as far back as December 2022 https://www.instagram.com/zara.darz/ which also mentions she is a 🌶️ Content Creator and links to an exclusive invite only Instagram page.

      And I’m just rereading your comment and seeing that you said the debunk article is AI slop, I thought you were saying that article called others AI slop lmao.

      Well, if anyone else misreads it they can also see this too now lol.

      • OprahsedCreature@lemmy.ml
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        For women only

        More like “for anyone having sex with men”.

        Also safe to say it’s far from easy considering the dangers inherent in it, especially in countries that demonize sex workers.

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            A man could 100% prostitute or open an only fans. And they’ll have the same type of customers as a woman, and probably be performing the same actions.

            So if it’s easy for women it should be easy for men.

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                I don’t do it for the same reason that most women don’t do it. Because I don’t want to. And because I prefer to do things I enjoy doing.

                If you want that “easy” money just open a grindr account and do some squats so you have a nice ass, my dude, you’ll be golden.

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        Easy gig compared to what? Certainly there are more difficult jobs, but I’d hardly think it’s easy. This feels like the same mentality as people who say it’s easy to be a streamer, or the way people would say it’s easy to be a YouTuber a decade ago. I think there is a lot more work that goes into it than you suspect.

        Especially if you’re saying it’s “for women only” implying it’s just male gaze propping them up. If you really believe that, wouldn’t that make it more difficult? Wouldn’t that imply women only have a few years to make money while they’re in their “prime”? Wouldn’t that imply they need to have a strict diet and workout routine to maintain their figure?

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          Easy gig compared to anything & there’s no “male gaze” it’s simple gender dynamics

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            I think it’s more work than you’d think. Plus, much like people pursuing other forms of content creation, there are a few people making a ton of money and a whole lot making little to nothing.

            Also, what do you mean by “simple gender dynamics”?

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        Many men, in the same age range, could also make a quick buck off OnlyFans.

        You just have to be comfortable with the idea that it’s still going to be mostly men jacking off to pictures of your butthole.

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        Really, an easy gig? I guess you are referring to only fans and not actual prostitution, the latter does not seem easy at all.

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          Yes it is & I’m tired of pretending it isn’t, you’ll be surprised how much easier it is & OnlyFans also comes under “Actual Prostitution”

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            Selling your body to any man with money does not seem easy at all to me. Or do you think all women in prostitutuon, and men for that matter, are there because they like it?

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    Maybe her fan base is sapio sexual… still a waste of talent ._. (but I would do the same… one million to fuck on cam? Per year??? Deal!)

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    Whenever i see the jokes about randoms dropping out of thier jobs to join only fans, i just think of Randy from South Park trying to start only fans

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    Hope she makes enough before her looks drop off.

    You’re only a young hot piece of ass for so long.

    Then what?

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      She already made a million. Give her two more years and she’ll make more than an average scientist in their whole career. Then she can still get a PhD.

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        As long as she’s careful with it, she’ll be fine. A lot of people who have sudden income windfalls don’t know how to be smart with it and end up losing everything, but as she’s pursued higher education, she’s a lot more likely to be financially literate than someone who regularly plays the lottery.

        If she invests wisely, she could be set for life.

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          Nostradamus over here, lol! 🔮

          What will she be doing 2 months from now? Rolling in the $ while you get mad that someone figured out a way to make an easier living?

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          Interesting. Didn’t know you knew her so well. Are you her best friend? Close family? Or how do you get so much insight into her psyche?

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        Ya? It’s that easy to just get into a phd program huh?

        She dropped out of her doctorate. She’s going to have to explain why she dropped out if she wants any chance to get back in and that is already pretty low after dropping out.

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          She didn’t really “drop out”. She left for a much much much better opportunity. That’s a strong sign of intelligence.

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          “I dropped out to make money, and now I have money, and now I want to complete my PhD.”

          Easy enough explanation.

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            It doesn’t work that way. You can’t just come back to a phd program after leaving it. It’s not like undergrad.

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                Did they have an approved leave of absence with a planned return or did they just fall off the side of the planet and then later just show up?

                It’s rare to find a school that would entertain such a thing. I doubt that is the case with those people you’re talking about.

                Without a leave of absence you’ll likely need to reapply and get new letters of recommendation , etc. Your chances at that point are pretty low.

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                  No, they withdrew, one about a decade ago, and then re-applied.

                  Its not nearly as hard as you are making it out to be.

                  Not much different than a new applicant, except we know they know how to be a doctoral program member, and do things like be an intern, or RA.

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          Picking shitty stocks would be the place, I guess. I hope she finds a good accountant, bless her.

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    What a sad waste of expensive education.

    Why do people in academics want to pursue big money in the first place? Misplaced priorities.

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      On one hand: work long hours with little to no recognition, put up with the bullshit politics of academia, constantly worrying about job security due to grant-based funding, and all while struggling to make ends meet.

      On the other hand: don’t struggle to make ends meet, deal with a lot less bullshit, job security.

      I’d ask you how you don’t understand, but you thought someone else bringing up capitalism was unrelated, so it’s obviously a sad waste of my expensive fucks-to-give to try to educate you. Misplaced priorities? Sounds more like you have no clue what you are talking about.

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      Capitalism is a wealth based caste system, but kids aren’t taught that in school so many don’t connect the dots until they are in college.

      If we don’t want people to value wealth above everything else maybe we shouldn’t have a system that also prioritizes profits above people, the planet, science and everything else.

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        First of all, thats completely off topic.

        Secondly, unregulated Capitalism devolves into a caste system as a result of weakness of the democratic state’s ability to self govern.

        If a nation state has the complete authority over all labor and markets it likely isn’t a very free nation, and all authoritarian nations also devolve into castes almost immediately with no recourse to push back.

        If a nation state does not have complete authority then it will organically develop markets and therefor is a capitalism, anyways.

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          the complete authority over all labor and markets it likely isn’t a very free nation, and all authoritarian nations also devolve into castes almost immediately with no recourse to push back.

          Yes, that’s an ok description of current reality under capitalism.

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          Capitalism cannot exist without a state ensuring the ruling class keeps being able to exploit the working class.

          Otherwise, who secures land claims? Or other private property from being taken by the working class?

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            Without the state, use of force secures land claims, and corporations would be more than happy to release the hounds on the rest of us.

            A democratic state is a collection of people, mostly workers, that forces the distribution of wealth and ideally equal rights in a court of law and protection of public lands.

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              You just described capitalism, with a fully privatized state. Much like the system in the US…

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          There are non capitalistic economic systems that are also don’t require state ownership and are non authoritarian. Literally just incentivizing worker owned coops is an example of how you can drastically shift the economic system without changing the political system. Markets =/= capitalism. The ability to hoard capital and thus power through private ownership is capitalism. I’m not saying that what i described is the perfect system, it’s just an example of something possible outside of your argument.

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            Lol, no, there aren’t any such systems currently in existence. No where on earth does that.

            Worker owned coops have to compete with privately companies unless private companies are outlawed, but in that example the state is expressing absolute authority over how businesses are structured. If the state gives them the freedom, then capitalistic business structures such as privately owned businesses or publicly traded business with vastly disproportionate ownership shares will form.

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          Even full state authority does not eliminate markets, it simply changes the participation. A lot of internet Communists get this wrong. Marx is pretty clear that the state only withers away when there is no more material scarcity. Unfortunately, instead of actually working towards that endpoint, we are stuck endlessly relitigating whether or not implementing a brutal dictatorship is a good way to liberate workers.

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      As an academic, if I could make $1M/year by showing my body on OF, I would quit my job in a heartbeat. I would make my money while I can and reassess when no one is interested anymore.

      Once I’d made my money, maybe I could use my academic expertise to effect some real change in the world. I’d certainly be more capable of making an impact if I were independently wealthy.

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        Okay thanks for sharing with the world that you’re greedy and arrogant.

        Why not just finish your degree and then model? If you’re already in a program that means you’ve completed all of the prerequisite education so it’s only whatever remains of the 3 years the program takes to finish, 4 maximum. You’re not going to age out of modelling in 2 years time.

        Let’s be completely honest, if you dropped out in the middle of your PhD study to go earn money, you’re probably never going back.