• madcaesar@lemmy.world
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    10 months ago

    Nothing wrong at approaching somone you like, introducing yourself and asking them out.

    One tip… don’t use the words sexual harassment in the first sentance when meeting somone…

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      10 months ago

      It’s not awesome to ask someone out when they’re working, but it’s not harassment unless it’s repeated.

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        5 days ago

        https://www.eeoc.gov/sexual-harassment

        Although the law doesn’t prohibit simple teasing, offhand comments, or isolated incidents that are not very serious, harassment is illegal when it is so frequent or severe that it creates a hostile or offensive work environment or when it results in an adverse employment decision (such as the victim being fired or demoted).

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        10 months ago

        Simply asking someone for their number is not harassment.

        Repeatedly asking for someone’s number after being told no is.

        There isn’t any nuance to this situation.

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          10 months ago

          Telling someone they’re beautiful when they think you’re gross is creepy/harassment.

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            10 months ago

            It’s okay to talk to women if you’re a male model but stay the fuck away if you aren’t. Got it.

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              10 months ago

              Or a female model. I’m certainly not here to discourage lesbians!

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            10 months ago

            “when they think you’re gross”

            How can I know if someone thinks I’m gross if I haven’t spoken to them yet? I should just assume I’m gross, always?

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              10 months ago

              That’s the fun part, you can’t. Don’t assume they think you’re gross, but do remember that you don’t know what they think.

      • RealFknNito@lemmy.world
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        10 months ago

        I hope you just have a feminine sounding name and you’re not a real life woman with this opinion.