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minus-squareOpticalMoose@discuss.tchncs.delinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·4 days agoSo much better than when I might have said something dumb and I’m staring at that unread message notification.
minus-squareFundMECFS@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPlinkfedilinkarrow-up0·edit-24 days agoAh I hate that. TFW I wake up to like 30 inbox messages after knowing I said something controversial. (With me it’s usually when I posted something about advancing disability rights). And I just don’t have the mental energy to check it out, so I mark all as read and pretend nothing happened lol.
minus-squareDragon Rider (drag)@lemmy.nzlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·4 days agoEvery time drag mentions having a negative experience with the community on Lemmy, the same 4 people come to harass drag. It’s exhausting.
minus-squareproudblond@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·4 days agoHonestly that’s a great mental health strategy!
minus-squareFundMECFS@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPlinkfedilinkarrow-up0·4 days agoAvoidance works pretty well for a lot of things. There’s a reason humans have evolved these behaviours.
So much better than when I might have said something dumb and I’m staring at that unread message notification.
Ah I hate that. TFW I wake up to like 30 inbox messages after knowing I said something controversial.
(With me it’s usually when I posted something about advancing disability rights).
And I just don’t have the mental energy to check it out, so I mark all as read and pretend nothing happened lol.
Every time drag mentions having a negative experience with the community on Lemmy, the same 4 people come to harass drag. It’s exhausting.
Honestly that’s a great mental health strategy!
Avoidance works pretty well for a lot of things. There’s a reason humans have evolved these behaviours.