Her father is suing.
She has a nut allergy and ate baklava? Because someone told her it didn’t have nuts in it? IT’S MADE OF NUTS!!! Did she eat it with her eyes closed?
She didn’t have an epi pen? She didn’t go to the school nurse? Checked out of school and took a walk instead? What? What?
I don’t have allergies, so someone please help me make sense of this. How could a seventeen year old with nut allergies eat baklava and head to CVS for some Benadryl afterwards?
Isn’t that an unusually bad series of decisions? Darwin Award level? I mean, if it wasn’t this, she might have died trying to dry her hair in the microwave.
Perhaps I could offer some perspective, since I do have a peanut and pistachio allergy. First of all, many people have allergies to specific nuts but not all nuts. Peanuts are actually legumes, and the allergy is to a specific protein. I eat almonds almost daily. I enjoy walnuts and pecans, macadamia nuts, etc. Some people are allergic to all of these nuts, but in my experience that’s actually fairly rare.
Baklava is traditionally made with walnuts. If you don’t have an allergy to walnuts and you’re sure it’s made just just walnuts and not some other nut you’re allergic to, then it’s not unreasonable to eat it.
Sadly, lots of nuts are labeled one nut but actually contain a mixture of nuts. One Christmas my aunt poisoned me with pecans in a salad. When I started having an anaphylactic reaction she checked the can which said in small print that it was 80% pecan 20% mixed nuts including peanut, pistachio, cashew, almond, and others. I spent Christmas in the ER.
Enjoying this delicious treat without an allergy kit is unwise. Some schools are crazy about kids having medication, but I think that’s ridiculous. I have all my allergy medication and syringes in a glasses case and I take it everywhere. I have one in my backpack, one in my car, one in my office, they’re everywhere. When you have a serious allergy like this, you should always know where to find it without having to think (every minute counts) and you should always have a bottle of water or know how to get water in an emergency to swallow meds. (When I board a plane, I always buy a bottle of water after I get through security.)
As for leaving school to get to a pharmacy if she didn’t have meds, I say smart. It’s criminal that the school doesn’t have an allergy kit. But sometimes you need to take matters into your own hands and be your own advocate. I’ve frequently made the call that I cannot wait for an ambulance to take me to a hospital, I need to drive myself to the closest ER because I can get there faster–even without lights and sirens–than waiting for an ambulance to drive essentially twice the distance. I know this is controversial but I’d rather die controlling my own destiny.
As for why she did not take this seriously, I can say that I’ve had lots of reactions with different levels of severity. Sometimes you spit the thing out right away without ingesting it. The reaction might be slower in this case, but can still be fatal. She probably thought she had more time. Once the allergin contacts a mucous membrane you’re toast. It’s not like you can wash your mouth out with soap and water–yes, I’ve actually tried that–doesn’t do shit. Once time I had peanut butter on my hands (unwittingly) and wiped my eyes. Full blown reaction just from touching my eye lids with peanut butter residue. That was a wild incident because I had no idea what was happening. Found out some kids had a birthday party at the location earlier in the day and they had PB&J sandwiches. Evidently they didn’t clean up too well.
It can be a tough thing to live with, but the person with the allergy often feels a lot of guilt for causing inconvenience for everybody around them. I hate being that guy with the peanut allergy. And nothing is worse than boarding a plane where people are already annoyed that they don’t serve peanuts and having to tell somebody in my row that I have a severe allergy and I’d really appreciate if they didn’t eat their Reeses cups and peanut bars. I do remind them that it probably beats the disruption of an emergency landing in a different city, though.
I feel for all involved. Anyway, hope that helps. Just my perspective.
Last I checked, they are $200, either weren’t covered by insurance or that was the co-pay, and expire after 6 months. We couldn’t even afford to keep one at school and one at home, much less have one everywhere.
Everything else you say makes sense to me, but not that.
If you’re talking about Epipen, they’re even more expensive than that, but I use epinephrine ampules that cost about $1 and draw it up myself if I need to use it. People will give you funny looks since you have syringes, but they do fine in the glasses case. The Epipen people will tell you that’s too complicated in an emergency but it’s actually really easy once you’re trained to do it. It also allows one to adjust the dose in an emergency–my dose is different than that of a child. My grandmother was a diabetic and had to inject herself with insulin all the time when I was growing up. If she could manage to do that anybody could.
You sound like you take things quite seriously, as well you should. I’m sure there’s a level of shame, and perhaps that’s a bigger deal with a teen. I really don’t blame her too much, although I do think it’s incautious of anyone to trust an unknown person’s word with a deadly food item.
I think I acknowledged that. People also take calculated risk every day. It’s really hard to avoid nuts even when you’re not intending on taking that risk. Baklava is pretty obviously nutty, but these days product labeling pretty much always says may contain peanuts for liability reasons, even when it definitely doesn’t contain peanuts. You’re left not knowing what actually contains peanuts and what doesn’t. You become desensitized to taking a chance. I once ordered a dessert at a restaurant and asked the waiter to check if it had peanuts, he came back and said it did not. I got the dessert, started eating it, mouth started swelling up, asked the waiter to check again, he came back and said there are definitely no peanuts but the chocolate mousse what peanut butter whipped chocolate mousse. So people are also just fucking stupid, can’t trust anyone to have any common sense anymore.
Even a known person’s word. People fuck up. Someone who doesn’t have a peanut allergy doesn’t know that even TRACES of peanut can kill people who have the allergy. So they’ll read “may contain traces of peanuts” and not understand.
When you have a lethal allergy you need to be prepared for good-natured ignorance and stupidity. And for a minor, it is on the parents that she wasn’t prepared.