• lightnsfw@reddthat.com
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    2 days ago

    I’ve had GFs in the past lose their attraction to me because I cried in front of them one time. All kinds of shit can affect that. Not just laziness. It may not even be anyone’s fault at all.

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        1 day ago

        Maybe but overall I think I’d have been better off keeping it to myself and continuing to have sex regularly. I don’t need to cry that often and having someone else around when I do it has never really helped with whatever was going on.

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      1 day ago

      Not fully convinced you’re discussing marriage like the rest of us here tbh

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        1 day ago

        I’m discussing reasons people can lose attraction to each other. You don’t have to be married for that to happen.

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          1 day ago

          The thread talks about what happens after marriage. I suggest not marrying people you haven’t been vulnerable in front of.

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            1 day ago

            That was just an example I had personally experienced. As I said there could be any number of reasons. Mental health, work stress, illness, hormone changes, etc. Marriage status has nothing to do with it.