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Cake day: November 1st, 2023

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  • I’m so rarely in the mood for avocado that it usually goes to waste when I buy any. Love putting Tabasco in the cavity left by the pit, and eating with a spoon.

    This place served it lightly smashed with diced red onions and sea salt, with tomato slices on top. Would have loved some crushed garlic mixed in but honestly it didn’t need any.







  • That is one of my favorite angles when trying to lift up someone who is discouraged about dating or friendship. Our minds are not equipped to really understand just how big the world is. There are a functionally infinite amount of people to meet. Even if you filtered humanity down to fluent speakers of your language, your preferred gender, close in age, you’re probably looking at more introductions / blind dates than you could ever possibly accommodate in your lifetime. It sounds trite to say “there are always more fish in the sea” but you can always keep trying.


  • Well, that’s a good starting point. The age thing probably isn’t as big a deal as you think, but there are probably other people close to your age studying there too, it might just be a little harder to find them.

    I guess all I can say is keep putting yourself out there, and don’t focus too hard on anything more serious than friendships while you’re feeling lonely. Be kind to yourself and I think the rest will follow


  • But you are going to university. That is a HUGE opportunity to make connections. See if there are any clubs or activities you could be a part of. Try to give some things a try, even if you’re only sort of sure whether you will like it. Make small talk with your peers! It doesn’t take much to get friendships going when you have regular proximity to people and find some that share your interests.