Why is it close 😭

wyd over there??

How does the initial advice work for guys?

I don’t have accessories, am I supposed to take one shoe off or something??

People don’t want help, they want you to fix it.

They’re then not grateful you fixed it, they’re annoyed with you because it broke in the first place.

It’s a great job 👍

I feel like this is very dismissive and also ignores that lots of relationships do inevitably start with vague signals.

“Yeah, well, women have it worse so your feelings are irrelevant and it’s okay if they ghost you.”

As I said in my original comment, I get it. But it doesn’t take away from the fact that it’s a difficult situation for men.

Being dismissive of men’s feelings and not letting them talk about how dating is difficult for them isn’t helping anyone.

I get where they’re coming from, but it’s still not great being a guy and only getting vague signals that you’re trying to piece together. Ghosting is also another issue that’s honestly just disrespectful.

While it may ultimately be those man children who ruin it for everyone, some upfront honesty is generally very appreciated.