Yeah I think hate is a draining and destructive emotion.
There’s situations where it should be used, but it should be used wisely. For example, it takes an insane amount of shady behavior to get under my skin, but when people do, they earn my hate and that makes me set very solid boundaries. But it would be bad to destroy friendships for hating someone because we got on each other’s nerves for a while.
I think there’s currently over a hundred potential victims individually or collectively suing him.
And before anyone starts searching, please take this trigger warning. It’s one of those cases that seems to have about the worst allegation making him look like a real monster.
We’ll see how much of that will stick in trial but it’s looking really bad for him.
As a German, this the insane things our parents, grandparents and institutions warned us about. People begrudgingly accepted their lead in the hopes that “although it’s an authoritarian, maybe he will take care of our goals”. What followed was the cruelty of 1939 to 1945 and no one deserves to live through that, not even the idiots that got us in this mess.
Yeah none of this is good advice generally.
A person who just made a suicide attempt nedds routine and normality but with a lot of friendly interactions sprinkled throughout that.
Sometimes family can even be one of the reasons a person gets so driven to go that far.
So cutting off contact and potentially making his family put even more pressure on him is one of the worst things you could do.
Cutting off contact only helps if you can’t handle the situation or the person anymore, and that still doesn’t help them, it just shields you from mental stress.
This guy foods. He had me when said he has tattoos.
Don’t like it, can’t change a lot of it.
Some stuff I can replace with open source software, but a lot of stuff will always be proprietary and opaque. I kinda just have to deal with that.
Counterpoint: the first enemy we faced after I got fireball was an enemy with fire resistance. My DM had a good laugh when I discovered that and I’m still mourning that spell slot.
Nice