No no no, it’s the fucking that puts the “cow” in “cowboy”.

Yeah that makes sense. I used to work in a position where I had to testify in court regularly about the results of independent findings the court requested. There were often lines of questioning that were about establishing details. The questions seemed silly, but it wasn’t about the specific pieces of information it was about establishing that “Thing A” was absolutely true (or false) as of a specific point on a timeline. I never had any fun exchanges like this though lol.

Because not everyone has had the experiences and education we have. Perhaps we should take the opportunity to educate rather than to shame.